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Forums > Help with Life > Anyone advice in how to get along with others? First Post: 18-Dec-2009, 1:03 pm
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Anyone advice in how to get along with others?
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User #40     62912 posts
bolder

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 7:57 am
My quip is in defiance of FBN's quip Lol
 

User #813     20386 posts
mandyj

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 7:59 am
Innerlove writes...
Well in my definition that is a person who is a fake, impostor and wears a mask, and like a snake. Gives you a hug and acts like everything is cool, but under your breath you say "I don't like this person" lol


You, Sir are a fake.
If you actually KNEW what Doc was going to do this morning you would be VERY embarrassed.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 7:59 am
mandyj writes...
because I may have lost my daughter's Christmas present, well the main one for HER.

On a compassionate and serious note... any update on it? What would need to happen for you to get it back?

 

User #43     61436 posts
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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:00 am
edited 20-Dec-2009, 8:00 am
Innerlove writes...
You claim to be genuine

yes I do

Innerlove writes...
Well in my definition that is a person who is a fake, impostor and wears a mask,

my definition is of a person who is socialised properly, doesn't see any reason to spew forth their own personal beliefs about another person just for personal satisfaction.

I still accuse you of 'interpreting' my post instead of 'reading' my post......

Innerlove writes...
BTW................... WTF are you all doing up this early on a Sunday morning????? lol

work
 

User #813     20386 posts
mandyj

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:03 am
Innerlove writes...
On a compassionate and serious note... any update on it? What would need to happen for you to get it back?


Working on it. All I can do is try. If that means I have to drive 3 hours to the boon docks to retrieve it, meh.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:04 am
mandyj writes...
Interesting he only thinks ONE of us is actually educated,

Let me tell you something which may help you understand.... There was a survey done for prisoners who are locked up in gaol. What they learned was that the poorest behaved prisoners who fought a lot and who spoke the worse, cursing and swearing were the prisoners who had the less education.

And the well educated people who were prisoners were the most calmest and who spoke the best and hardly ever swore or cursed.

So I can tell mandyj by a persons ranting and swearing and cursing that they are poorly educated and have a low IQ.

And the people who don't swear every 5 mins like you do, and who contain deep meaning in their comments, and talk more calmly and politely etc usually have more education, formally or personally.

So that's how I can tell you are probably a school drop out and didn't get a UNI degree or anything and are very poorly educated.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:08 am
bolder writes...
You know I have no idea why I did

bolder, always remember and realise one thing.... MOST choices we make in life about everything is done on a subconscious level and many times on a conscious level we don't understand why we do what we do and when we do it.

But in the subconscious exists the window to your heart and soul, and there are many "hidden" secrets within there that reveal to ourselves and others what truly lives in our spirits.

There is a deep reason why you have chosen that particular avatar out of all the other millions you could have.
 

User #1335     15338 posts
Nova

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:08 am
Innerlove writes...
I can tell. I don't even know Nova from a bar of soap, but she has an attractive field about her, even through the internet. I am intrigued by her and the beautiful avatar she has selected tells me a lot about her heart and her deepest desires.

I've been debating answering this post of your's and I will even at the expense of possibly embarrising myself.

When you asked in a previous post for me to tell you more about myself I came up with one word...........repressed and posts like yours actually make the problem worse

One of the the biggest mistakes I've made all my life was/is trying to live up to other peoples idea of me. So really what you see and interpret is a sham.
 

User #40     62912 posts
bolder

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:09 am
Oh dear, Mandy! the artist , the creator, hmmmmmmm Mandy the educated graphic artist hmmmmmmmm

Did you lie to me biatch
 

User #813     20386 posts
mandyj

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:09 am
Innerlove writes...
So that's how I can tell you are probably a school drop out and didn't get a UNI degree or anything and are very poorly educated.

LOL, lol, and FUCKING lol!
I have actually got TWO degrees, and have been very well educated thank you very much for your pathetic....God, analysis!
You are an excellent contraception for, what is it you do? Life coach?
Oh and one more time for the dummies, FUCKING PMSL!!!!!
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:11 am
doc writes...
Money is about sex

Well I wish I had as many gf's than I do dollars
 

User #40     62912 posts
bolder

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:11 am
edited 20-Dec-2009, 8:13 am
Innerlove writes...

But in the subconscious exists the window to your heart and soul, and there are many "hidden" secrets within there that reveal to ourselves and others what truly lives in our spirit


I am a dominant person, control freak so to speak, what I! think is not being done right (my way is always right ) I get extremely frustrated with.

So my banana is a defiance plus control symbol see the eyes, not a happy face at all , a face which displays displeasure and inpatients Lol

 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:13 am
mandyj writes...
I'm afraid I haven't even read it yet.

I have noticed you use phrases like "I'm afraid".

The reason is that deep down, at the core of your soul, you are afraid. Reason because you were hurt and abused as a child and now you live in fear and probably have paranoia and anxiety stress.

 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:15 am
mandyj writes...
You, Sir are a fake.

Aren't we all?

If you actually KNEW what Doc was going to do this morning you would be VERY embarrassed.

What a person does at "times" doesn't truly define that person as a whole.

For example, many girls work in a brothel, but deeply in their hearts they detest it and loathe it and look for an opportunity to escape the people or circumstances that entrap them into doing what they hate.

 

User #813     20386 posts
mandyj

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:15 am
bolder writes...
Did you lie to me biatch

Yeah I lied so bad I wanna actually scan my diplomas and post them, but as I am not so insecure as to do that I won't bother taking them out of their frames to appease some dipshit that I am what I SAY I am
You've seen my work, I'll trust that at least another dozen people on this forum know I'm not lying to compensate for my dreadfully poor education
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:16 am
doc writes...
work

You work from home? May I ask what you do?
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:18 am
mandyj writes...
f that means I have to drive 3 hours to the boon docks to retrieve it, meh.

Ok lets put our thinking caps on.

Was it sent by express post or registered post? If so, put the code number into this web link and tell me what it says:

www.auspost.com.au/track/

If not, how was it sent? Regular mail that cannot be traced?

If so, what is the destination and what is the closest AU post office to that location? Name, then we can find their phone number.. Then we can call them at the post office and ask them to return to sender.

THEY WILL DO IT IF ASKED PROPERLY AND IF YOU SPEAK TO THE RIGHT PERSON.

So which is it?
 

User #40     62912 posts
bolder

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:19 am
Oh come on, please...... start a special thread for this, I am sure it will be not augmentative, well no more so than it is now, a special thread for this would be great.

Maybe on an off topic area like the coffee lounge.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:24 am
edited 20-Dec-2009, 8:26 am
Nova writes...
One of the the biggest mistakes I've made all my life was/is trying to live up to other peoples idea of me.

Nova, what if peoples ideas about you contain reality? Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations, live up to your own potential.

The problem with the schooling system is that we are deeply conditioned to compete with others. For example, get top of the class, be the best basketball player etc. Yet in the real world we must work as a team and not compete always with others and do what they expect of us. Instead we should live up to our own potential.

So really what you see and interpret is a sham.

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I disagree Nova. A person cannot "sham" their deepest content of their hearts, and I have seen enough of you and heard enough testimonies from others on this forum, that you have a heart of gold and people like you very much.

True success in life Nova is not external appearances or external materialism or social status, it's what's in the heart.

So Nova, seize the day (Carpe diem) and enjoy life and your beautiful heart, let it shine naturally without being so harsh on yourself.

Go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for it is now that God favors what you do.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:29 am
mandyj writes...
I have actually got TWO degrees,

The only degree you have is a degree in ABUSE

and have been very well educated

Bulllshit lol. When I go talk to a very well educated person at UNI, whether that be the Professor or the leading student, I don't get met with someone using the F word every 2 mins lol.

Did you know that the words we use are correlated to our attitude and behaviour?

You mostly see a heated argument between 2 people, swearing and cursing each other before someone makes a strike.

Violent and aggressive words usually precede all wars.
 

User #4243     322 posts
Innerlove

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:32 am
bolder writes...
I am a dominant person, control freak so to speak

Are you happy about that?

hink is not being done right (my way is always right ) I get extremely frustrated with.

I hear ya. Being a perfectionist can be very hard work, mentally, physically and emotionally. And it can make life difficult for other people in our lives when they feel pressured to live up to our demands and expectations.

So my banana is a defiance plus control symbol see the eyes, not a happy face at all , a face which displays displeasure and inpatients Lol

As I have said many times, I see a lot about a person by the avatar they choose I noticed the eyes and I also noticed the control you are having over the poor little guy you "stand over" and controlling his movements.
 

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mandyj

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:33 am
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The reason is that deep down, at the core of your soul, you are afraid. Reason because you were hurt and abused as a child and now you live in fear and probably have paranoia and anxiety stress.

Oh. Now I was abused as a child? Is that your standard "Oh fuck me, can't think of anything so I'll just say they were abused as a child" spiel?
By the way I SWEAR because I happen to like the shock value in it.
As I have been properly educated, am comfortable with myself and don't like to take shit from fakers like you, it eases my boredom in a way.
In fact it's a fantastic way to relieve stress. YOU stress me. Mainly because you spout lies and CRAP about people, I mean so far everything you have said about people on this forum who I happen to know WAY better than you has been completely untrue. Laughable even, except for Nova of course whom it is FUCKING obvious to even the most retarded fuckstick is a genuinely lovely, kind and wise person.
You don't need to have done a "fully accredited" mail course to tell that!
Man you need to spend some quality time in a nice, safe, mental institution to learn how to "Get along with people" because if your contributions to this forum are any indication, you are "DOING IT WRONG".
 

User #40     62912 posts
bolder

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posted 20-Dec-2009, 8:34 am
edited 20-Dec-2009, 8:39 am
Ok, I am closing this thread so a new one can be created in another area, preferable coffee lounge which is not an on topic lounge, if the Op wishes to have this re-opened to discuss their OP post, please coaster a Mod.
Thread closed.

If anyone wishes to make a reply to any of these posts in another thread! if one is created, please anchor the post and copy only the link into the new thread, not a quote of what has been said in this thread, this will avoid cross posting.

Thanks B
 

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Forums > Help with Life > Anyone advice in how to get along with others? First Post: 18-Dec-2009, 1:03 pm
Last Post: 20-Dec-2009, 8:34 am
Posts: 223
Views: 2305